If you are trying to win lost love back, the first step is to apologize, you might think you have done this, you might have said you were sorry several times, but if your ex thought you were apologizing just to stop the break up, he or she might not think the apology was sincere, if you were the one who did something that you need to apologize for, apologize again, now he or she might think that the apology is sincere, because nothing hinges on it, if the relationship has ended, you won’t be saying it only to save it but he or she will believe that you really mean it.
When your ex was the one who did something worth apologizing for, then rather than try to get a sincere apology from them, forgive them, you might never forget, especially if your break up was because of cheating, but you must learn to forgive, forgiving is much harder for some of us than merely saying, “I forgive you,” though, so you might want to read a book or two on forgiveness and how to really mean it, if you want to win lost love back, this step will help you do it, and it can help prevent problems in the future, too.
If you do succeed and you win back lost love, 3 or 6 or even 9 months into the newly patched relationship, old issues might come up, if you haven’t forgiven the person for whatever was done to break up the relationship, then you might have a hard time getting past everything, old wounds would be reopened and it’s likely that hurtful things would be said, but if you can truly forgive the person, then there won’t be any need to rehash the past, while you are working on forgiving him or her for whatever happened to cause the break up, forgive them for the break up itself and you will save yourself lots of grief down the road.
Also, you may win lost love back by reminding them why they loved you in the first place.
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