If you just broke up with your ex, you may feel like calling your ex and begging him or her to come back to you, don’t do that, rather than make things better, what it is probably going to happen is make your situation much worse, chasing your ex away even further.
What you should actually do at this point is the opposite of what you are feeling, do you feel like calling your ex? Don’t! Do you feel like staying inside and crying all day long? Don’t! Instead, follow these three basic steps and you will be getting love back soon.
Step 1 – Accept the Break Up!
First and foremost, you need to accept that the break up is happening, tell your ex that you are okay with it, and allow the “moving on” process to begin, when you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all, your ex will need time to think about the relationship, and this will give you time as well to consider your options, if your ex realizes that he or she still loves you, they will find a way to get back with you.
Step 2 – Do not contact your ex!
Do not make an effort to contact your ex anymore at this moment, you should cut communication off with him or her so that there can be some “thinking time”, this may seem counterintuitive, but by cutting communication off you are signaling that you have already moved on and that you are doing just fine.
This will allow him or her to think about the relationship and how they feel about its value, it will also allow them to have some time to miss you again, when you can separate yourself from your ex and can calm your nerves, that may be the best time to let them realize how important you were to them.
Step 3 – Plan Ahead for the Get Together.
Once you have completed the two steps mentioned just above, you can start working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again, this will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together.
Getting love back can be a little more complicated than the three steps above, but they are a good start and will improve your chances of winning your ex back.