In order to get back together with your ex girlfriend, there are numerous steps to take, here are some tips that you should keep in mind when working through this process.
There is always a second chance for everyone. It’s not impossible for you to get back together with your ex girlfriend, but first, you should ask yourself some questions.
Do you still love her? Do you really want her back? Why? Are you trying to get her back because you don’t want to be alone, or you don’t believe you should have been dumped? If you are looking to get back with your ex for reasons other than love, you may be playing a dangerous game that would be better off avoided.
Do not appear desperate or needy to your girlfriend. Although you may feel desperate, and you may really want her back, you absolutely need to control your emotions, keeping them to yourself, if you cannot help them, then it may be wise to talk to your friends or family so you can cry your heart out where she cannot see, do not beg or cry in front of your girlfriend, however, and absolutely do not stalk her.
Learn how to control your feelings. If you appear too needy, or if you come off as too desperate, she may end up avoiding you even more.
Keep the communication lines with your ex open. She may have ended the relationship, but you just need to make her feel like communication lines are open and that you want to be civil, you do not have to be the one initiating the conversation, but you should be willing to say hello and have a conversation occasionally with her, keeping in touch casually.
Above all else, analyze what went awry with the relationship. There must have been a problem that led to the end of the relationship, so find out what the problem was if you want to get back together with your ex, find out what caused the arguments, of which of her needs weren’t being met, and work on rectifying those issues.