Love Spells to Get Him Back

If you are thinking about love spells to get him back then you really need to read this. Communicating with him in a calm and rational manner might be all it will take. Have you taught of a written letter sent by regular mail? This can be a good way to let him know where you are coming from. Texts are just too impersonal. It’s hard to truly explain how you feel with an electronic delivery system. But sending a letter handwritten by you will surely get his attention.

For the letter to be effective you have to make sure that you keep a few points in mind:

1. Don’t be negative. This isn’t the time for guilt trips, venting your anger, or whining about your broken heart. This is the time to honestly own whatever part you played in the breakup of the relationship. Even if most of the blame is his, you probably still had something that you did wrong and regret. Explain why you did what you did. Don’t try to justify it, just explain what you were thinking at the time and why you took the actions you took.

2. Don’t promise that you’ll change. You should be honest with yourself about anything that you need to work on but that’s it. You aren’t going to change yourself and remake yourself for every boyfriend you have. That’s not healthy. But you can and should work on improving yourself. And you can tell him what you plan to work on and why.

3. Talk a little about your life now, without him. Don’t brag about a new guy and try to make him jealous and don’t sound all down and whiny. Just tell him something good. Not all the details but just enough to pique his curiosity. Make sure you end your letter with something positive, something that reminds him of the wonderful, fun loving women he fell in love with.

You don’t have to resort to free love spells to get him back, all you need to do is find a way to remind him of how great you are and how great the two of you used to be. If you can do this and intrigue him all over again you will have a better chance of getting him back.

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Is It Possible to Save My Relationship?

If you want to save your relationship I have some tips that might be able to make a difference for you and your partner. But first you must to decide why you want to save your relationship. That might sound like a dumb question but sometimes we cling to things that we should just let go. Before you invest too much time and emotion in trying to save your relationship first make sure that it should be saved.

Now that you have decided that your relationship is worth saving here are a few tips you can follow which should help:

1. It’s not all about you. So often in relationships one person tends to carry more of the burden. They are the “fixer”. They are the ones who carry most of the emotional baggage. If that person is you then you have to realize that you can’t do it all. If your relationship is going to be saved your partner has to be able and willing to meet you halfway.

2. Try to communicate without condemning or criticizing. When a relationship starts to falter there are a lot of hurt feelings and frustrations from both parties. These hurts can build up into a huge wall of resentment. That wall is very tough to tear down. It will take a lot of time, patience, and open communication. If the two of you aren’t good at communicating you might need to find resources such as a book or counseling, that can help you work on your communication skills.

3. Own it. If you’ve screwed up you need to be a mature adult and admit your mistake and apologize for it. This is key. Remember in step 2 when I talked about resentments building up? You can do a lot to ease those resentments if you just own up to your mistakes and offer a sincere apology for the hurt you may have caused. To someone who loves you and wants to make things work this will be a very sweet sound.

Follow these steps and you will be well on your way to saving your relationship. Remember, the problems didn’t spring up overnight and they’re not going to go away overnight either. But if both of you are willing to work together you can get back the loving, fulfilling relationship you both want.

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What to Do to Get Him Back When He Has Just Broken Up With You

When your ex has just broken up with you, you are likely to feel hurt, and angry at the same time. But if you really want this man in your life, there are a couple of things you can do. The first thing to do is to let him know how you feel. Write him a letter, apologizing for any bad behavior and reminding him of the good times you both spend together. Don’t be afraid to tell him how much he means to you and how much you miss him.

Assuming you get a positive response to your letter, agree to meet him but do so in a public place. This will help prevent your discussions turning into a huge argument. You will need to be prepared to tell your man how you feel. Don’t hide your feelings. If you are angry tell him why but try not to turn the meeting into a blame fest.

This will not help you in convincing him that you are good together. Keep the conversation to facts and also use the word I and not you. For example you should say “I feel let down” rather than “you let me down”. This is a lot less confrontational and less likely to cause offence or lead to another argument.

Allow him to criticize you as well. It is best if this is done in a constructive way. We all have our faults and some of your less attractive character traits may be, in part, to blame for why he broke up with you.

It is very important that you listen to what he says. Don’t assume you know what he is trying to say. Encourage him to say what is on his mind as this is the opportunity for you both to work through any issues in your relationship and come out of this as a stronger couple. He may have made the decision to break up, but your behavior probably contributed to his decision.

Do not play games and don’t feel that you have to hold something back in order to make him come back to you. This will only cause feelings of resentment which may lead to you splitting up again. Don’t look on a breakup as a negative. All couples go through good and bad patches. It is a normal feature of adult relationships.

Follow these tips and one day as a happy couple, you may actually be thankful that you found this to work wonders.

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Quotes About Relationships

The Best Relationship Quotes I Know

I love reading relationship quotes and today I thought I would share a couple of my favorite ones with you. Where possible, proper credit has been given to the person who wrote or spoke the original quote. However in some cases that may not have been possible.

You know love funny quotes as I believe humour is a key ingredient in a great relationship. Some of the funny ones I like are:

“What can you say to a man who has just had sex? Anything you like as he is asleep”.

Or for those male readers – “what is the difference between a terrorist and a woman with PMS?” “You can negotiate with a terrorist!”

Joking aside, this quote credited to Leo Buscaglia should be in all couple’s homes.

“Too often we under estimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around”.

As most of us know it is the little things in a relationship that can cause it to fail or blossom. It is easy to blame the other person in our relationship for our dissatisfaction but as Martha Washington said “I have learned from experience that a greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances”.

Some relationship quotations are beautiful and sad at the same time. Such as the one from William Somerset Maugham (an English Writer) on unrequited love being “The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned”.

While I don’t think Colin Powell was talking about relationships when he said “None of us can change our yesterdays, but we can all change our tomorrows”, it is one that we could all do with remembering. Too often we waste time and energy holding grudges against our partners for something they did in the past. It is too late to change it now so let it go once and for all. So long as it isn’t a pattern of repeated behaviour it doesn’t do anyone any good to remember it.

“Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much” Helen Keller. This lady was my idol when I was growing up. Despite being born blind and mute she achieved so much more than the rest of us often do. I believe that being part of a couple and then a family gives us the chance to be so much more. We need to appreciate the gifts we have. Our relationships would be a lot happier if we said thank you and I love you just a little more often.

As Mother Theresa is quoted as saying “There is more hunger for love and appreciation in the world today than for bread”. Make sure your loved one knows how much you love and appreciate them today, to avoid a day when you wished you had listened to the relationship quotes.

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Do You Want Your Ex Back? Helpful Tips

Many relationships go through a bad time at some point in their lives, and most of the best marriages have survived those problems. Relationships are all about give and take. That doesn’t necessarily mean that one person gives and the other takes! Men and women are very different and we need to learn to live with one another.

Deciding you want to share your life with someone is a big commitment. The sexual attraction between a couple, especially in the early stages, can often cloud their judgment and it is surprising how many people enter into long term relationships without having agreed the basics. Little things like where you want to live and whether you want to have children are often forgotten in the excitement of being together.

Men and women fall out for all sorts of reasons. At times of financial and family stress, we often pick on those nearest to us. When you care for another person and know them intimately you have the power to really hurt that person. If we ourselves are hurting, we often turn that hurt and anger onto the other person.

It is important to understand why you broke up in the first place. If you ended the relationship because one of you wanted children and the other didn’t, then you will find that this probably hasn’t changed. You may get back together but in the long run will split up again if this issue is not resolved. Forcing someone into a huge life commitment like having a child against their will does not usually result in a long term happy relationship. If you have very different viewpoints on these life issues, you should stay apart and find someone more compatible to fall in love with.

If, on the other hand, you split up because of jealousy or some other petty incident then your relationship may be worth saving. If you really miss your previous partner and know that you want to share your life with them, then you must do everything in your power to get back with your ex. Contact your partner and let him/her know that you would like to meet up to discuss the future. Do not get involved in a dissection of what went wrong before. It is too easy to put the blame on the other person. Instead agree that there were problems but that you would like to rekindle the relationship.

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