If you have already tried several things to get boyfriend back, but nothing seems to work, do not worry, you just need to learn how to get boyfriend back, it’s important to remember at all times how you appear to him, it’s going to be hard to get him back if you look childish or scheming.
Whatever you have been doing obviously is not working or you’d be back together already, if you have been following him around and showing up everywhere he appears out with friends or on a date, your behavior probably seems more like that of a stalker than someone who loves him, when you have an ex boyfriend to get back, things you are doing to convince him to be with you might be the things that are keeping him away.
Next time you end up in the same place together, whether it’s a restaurant or a club, when you walk in and see him, please do acknowledge him, but instead of going up to him and demanding his attention as you might have done before, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room, or explain that since he’s there, you will leave to make him more comfortable, be nice and polite and simply go, if nothing else, the change in your behavior will get him thinking.
Doing what is not expected is important if you have been trying to get boyfriend back unsuccessfully for a while, if you have been calling him 10 times a day, or even 3, stop that, instead call when you really need something, not just to rehash why he should take you back, if you don’t have a reason to call, then simply don’t call, after a week or so, give him a call just to say hello and that you were thinking about him, ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions like that.
If he starts to sound suspicious wanting to know why you really called and acting as if all this niceness is just a prelude to your usual behavior, just assure him you called because you really missed him and you wanted to check in on him, then say goodbye and end the call on a good note, he will wonder why you didn’t beg or plead as usual, and what’s going on, if you are less comfortable with calling for such a thing, mail him a card that simply says you are thinking about him, it’s important to give him the chance to make a move, you can’t smother him with attention and affection but instead let him come after you.